move mod_spidermoney build to automake, fix spidermoneky dependencies (I think this really fixes -j builds), move mod_spidermonkey sub modules all under the same source directory and bundle their build together as one

git-svn-id: http://svn.freeswitch.org/svn/freeswitch/trunk@16333 d0543943-73ff-0310-b7d9-9358b9ac24b2