ESL-88 --resolve
Signed-off-by: Travis Cross <tc@traviscross.com>

Apparently CentOS 6 has only v3.6.20 of sqlite, so we'll accommodate
that barring evidence we shouldn't.  Please test and report back.

We've really only tested 3.8.3.1, so you might want to consider using
that.  We'll lower this down to 3.7.13 for Debian wheezy.  Please
test.

Autodetect whether the system libapr / libaprutil has our
necessary modifications and use it if it does.

This purges sqlite from our tree and requires it to be present on the
system for building and running FreeSWITCH.

FS-353

FS-353
Signed-off-by: Travis Cross <tc@traviscross.com>

mod_v8: Use parallel build by default. Use configure flag "--disable-parallel-build-v8" to disable it. It's disabled by default for Debian build scripts, since parallel build has some issues with cowbuilder.

This is currently breaking the build.  We'll get that fixed and add
mod_v8 back in after things slow down.

...at your own risk.  cURL has had some serious security issues over
the years, so if you're using an ancient version, I hope that you're
receiving security patches from your vendor.

The version set here is to accommodate CentOS 6.