MODSOFIA-92 Add openssl build support to windows - no external build support needed (step 1 - not hooked up yet) vs2008 pro+ only

[mod_commands,mod_event_socket,mod_event_test] fix up other users of switch_event_xmlize() to use SWITCH_EVENT_NONE

[mod_lcr] Use SWITCH_VA_NONE instead of an empty string to (finally) fix the gcc printf format warnings.

mod_callcenter: More ODBC changes.  It is not a global settings value.  Cannot be changed in runtime.

mod_callcenter: Add ability to unload/reload/load a queue setting (You still need to reloadxml before).
Note that joining a queue will check for it in the config and load it on the fly... I've used the same system as in mod_voicemail.  Not sure if we should allow this, but just comment it out of the config before unload and it wont be available anymore

skypopen: now answer a call only when directed to do it (before was trying to answer any incoming call). Lot of changes to a messy part, so maybe some problem will come out...
Signed-off-by: Giovanni Maruzzelli <gmaruzz@gmail.com>

trivial - remove debug log of wrong information - reported on userlist - correct information reported on the next log statement

This module is in it early state of developpement.  You can see documentation on the wiki at : http://wiki.freeswitch.org/wiki/Mod_callcenter
For support/comments, please use http://jira.freeswitch.org/ and select the MOD CALLCENTER module.

mod_dialplan_xml: Add in the INFO log the caller id number when processing a request (Currenly only show the caller name)

add ability to set more error dirs. maybe it's paranoid, but we can use distributed file system, that we don't trust enough

[FreeTDM][2/2] for FreeBSD: ftdm_interrupt_multiple_wait() linux poll version should also work on all BSD variants (and Solaris too), add FreeBSD for now. (Build-tested on FreeBSD-8.1) NOTE: We may want to drop the #elif completely and just go for an #else here instead.

not sure if not creating the localstetdir run directory will work. deleted inclusion of xml_cdr directory, that gets created, moved freeswitch init file to /etc/rc.d/init.d and mikej lea e your hands of it idf you do not test before commit ;)